Person asked:
lllolll ummm whats the 3 most important qualities a man looks for in a relationship?
Michael answered:
Being a guy, I’m sure a lot of people are expecting me to say something sex related and you’d be right in some case.
The first major quality would be loyalty. I don’t know too many men that want their woman sleeping around and lying. Loyalty is very valued because it shows where the relationship is heading. If you tell a child to take five dollars and buy some milk and they do it, good, you have a sense that they are loyal to you and won’t screw you over. Though if they take the money and do something else with it, mostly to serve themselves, then you know this isn’t going to work, or your going to have to solve some issues and it’s just a big hassle. No man wants to have to go through that, when a women is loyal it’s almost impossible to try and gain back that respect and the quality is LOST! She’s got to be loyal and faithful.
The second she’s got to have a great personality. As much as men might say boobs, boobs, boobs and some ass and they are good to go, they are lying. We are talking about men who want relationships and they want a women with personality. What’s that personality got to have? She’s got to be fun and know how to have fun, maybe she’s got to be just a little lose and know how to deal with some teasing. No man wants a tight ass girl-friend. I don’t think anyone wants someone who’s stuck up. No divas, we know you look good and we are happy to be with you, but she needs to calm down.
Personality, down to earth. She’s got to know how to get along with your friends and respect to them. She’s got to respect the man, his family and his friends. She should be supportive and there for him when he needs it. In the relationship, she should be a team member, she’s got to be committed to making this work and care about her man. She needs to understand him and be able to speak up for herself. A relationship is a team effort and honestly men don’t want to feel like the girl is just there, they want to know she’s there and care that she’s there.
You can’t have respect for someone that doesn’t respect themselves.
Finally in this day in age, people are pretty sexual. So there should be some physical connection, along with the emotional one.
Love/Sex honestly a lot stronger than just love. That physical connection and intimacy really spark and ignite the passion in the relationship. If you don’t agree with me ask the many people that have sex.
I hope I’ve answered your question :D Take care.
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Great answer and well put. I think these are the qualities everyone wants in a relationship and they are what make relationships last. When I'm asked what qualities I look for I never really know what to say but you just about summed it up!
ReplyDeleteThank you, your comment means a lot to me Stephanie.
ReplyDeleteI’m sure there are different qualities though, you know the specific things? Though honestly, that’s pretty much the down to earth version and yes, I don’t care what anyone saids…there has to be some sort of physical connection, more so in this day and age.