Google Search

Friday, February 4, 2011

Introduction comes with dating advice

HEY! I just wanted to say thanks for checking out my blog, it really means a lot to me. I’m not going to go into detail about myself. My names Michael Richardson, I’ve been on some dates and I’ve had a couple girlfriends. That’s about it. I’m not going to tell you I’m a pick up artist or a dating guru, I don’t have all the answers, I just have my answers, you can agree or not, it doesn’t affect me. I believe there are many ways to go about doing something and many ways to accomplish the same goal.
An example of this and I will go into this in more detail is, if you want to kiss somebody, you can either ask them or go for it and both would work. One might work better than the other and there are many reasons for this.

Some people believe you should ask, it’s respectful and shows you want to make sure she’s comfortable. Others believe that approach is wimpy and show’s you are weak and unsure of yourself. If a man wants to kiss someone, he should go for it. That assertive kind of thinking, see it and take it. Now, to be honest both of these approaches work fine, it just depends on the woman your with.

From personal experience, I was usually just the one to go for it, that doesn’t always work. Sometimes women are shy and would rather you ask them, because they honestly do not feel comfortable having you just be that aggressive.

This also came as a shock to me, when my current girlfriend said it to me. “If you want to kiss me, just ask.”

Anyways I will talk more about that later, but this is what I’m trying to communicate to you. Perspective is important, being able to see things from all angles and not just your own point of view. That’s what I’m trying to give you here.

If you had to travel through a dark forest on your own, only knowing that somewhere in there is a wolf willing to tear you to shreds, you wouldn’t get very far.
BUT

If you had to travel through the same dark forest, with a flash light, maybe a torch, something to defend yourself with and a detailed map of where the wolf is most of the time, you’d have a better chance of getting through that forest alive.
That’s what this blog is about, giving you that flash light, that torch and that map. Trying to get you through the bull that you don’t understand and towards something you deserve, something that seems out of reach, but has been in front of you all this time…you just didn’t have the tools to unlock and own it…





No comments:

Post a Comment