Women want to date jerks. THEY LOOOOVE JERKS!

No wrong, they don’t. You don’t have to be a jerk to get women either.

You are looking at me like I’m crazy, right? Michael, my girl-friend just ran off with this guy that cheated on her three times with her own sister and in her bed. Yeah I know it sucks right, what have you been doing? Taking her to dinner and taking her to dinner and the occasional awkward sex, yeah I can see why she would want to stay with you. Now I know what you’re saying now. You think that’s a good thing to be doing, you’re being nice, and women like nice guys. You’d be right, some do.

Though why does it seem the nice guy gets to be friends with her and the jerk gets to be well… WAY more than just friends? It’s because, the jerk appears to be manlier and outgoing than you are, that’s it. That’s why I say women aren’t interested in jerks; they are interested in what the jerk brings to them. Excitement, drama, stories, something to gossip about and of course with all those animalistic asshole qualities, great, intense, over-bearing sex.
You can’t compete with that, when all you bring to the table is dinner and some cuddle time. Time to mix it up a little, this is where you guys get it messed up, you go into jerk mode. You think, hey girls want assholes let’s be what they want. You start mistreating women and using them, no that’s wrong. Like I said women don’t want jerks, they just want the good qualities that come with the jerk. That’s simple and you can add these qualities to yourself, without a dramatic change.

STEP ONE!

Right now you’re soft and squishy. GREAT! Stay soft and squishy; there is nothing wrong with having a sensitive side. I have a sensitive side. Just add some edge, be more assertive and decisive. Instead of always asking for things, don’t ask but don’t tell people either. BE A LEADER!

Don’t do this…
You: Want to go out?
Her: Um, where?
You: It’s your choice, I’m fine with whatever.
Her: Um, hold on I have to take this call.
Horrible, just horrible. Step it up a little… You are asking, so what if she says no, you’ll be happy? Why are you asking her out, but you don’t know where to go?

This screams “I’m willing to go anywhere with you, as long as you are there.” THIS IS SWEET! For a girl you hardly know? NO! It’s creepy!

You can do this…
You: Hey, are you busy? Let’s go out.
Her: No, I’m not busy, sure sounds good.
You: Cool, meet up at 8
Her: Alright.

STEP TWO

In the case she says no, follow these tips. If she didn’t offer you another date, say she can’t make it Monday and says maybe next week Monday, alright cool. It’s your choice if you can make that or not, at least she’s showing interest. You’re not about to wait for this girl, you have other things to do. If she doesn’t offer you another date, then offer another date and if she still says she can’t make it, just say alright and don’t bother asking. There may come a day, when you do get to go out with her, but you’ll already be with someone else, so waiting around for that date, isn’t in your best interest.
If you didn’t catch that step two, is basically doing other things that perusing one girl.

STEP THREE

Tease her, tease her, and tease her. You don’t have time to say you look cute, every 5 minutes, that’s not going to get your anywhere. In fact, if you replace more of you compliments with teasing and not in a serious way. Trust me if you give off the correct body language and tone, you can get away with calling her almost anything.

This is about being fun and playful, not making her feel like an idiot. If you can throw out a teasing line and get her laughing and maybe even threatening you playfully you’re doing great.

DO NOT SERIOUSLY JUST MAKING FUN OF HER! THIS IS STUPID AND CRUEL!

STEP FOUR

Be spontaneous, the trouble with most nice guys are they are just too predictable.

That’s a good I guess, it means they are safe and there for the girl. Yeah, that’s alright but really you want to be just a little unpredictable and keep things interesting.
Bottom line here is.

Be fun, be spontaneous, a leader, playful and above all be yourself. I’m not trying to change you, I’m just giving you little things you can add to yourself, to make you a better you. I’m not like most people who say, OH just be a jerk, girls love that…no…no… don’t.

Women are with jerks because they display more manly and interesting traits than nice guys. Sooner or later women wise up and ditch the jerk for more stable and structure MEN! A couple of these men are nice guys and honestly some women want that, but jerks no…just don’t do it….

BUT! I should warn you that NOT ALL WOMEN WANT THE SAME THING! If you want all women to like you, you’ll need to morph your persona over and over again. You’d have to treat you personality like a change of clothes and it’s not worth your time…it’s immoral.

Hope you enjoyed the video; let’s see what Jim does after he reads this post. Lol



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