Will you girls please just say NO! Some of us guys are a little confused.

This one is for the lovely ladies and the dumbstruck men. I was once like you men too, don’t worry. I once thought I was never rejected. I thought all the girls were crazy for me and they could only help but say yes. You know, because of my sexy deep voice, childlike undertone and over the top personality. I flatter myself, but I was wrong, no not about the complements. That is all true. I was wrong about never being rejected; apparently I was rejected quite a bit.

How could I honestly trick myself into believing I was never rejected though? It’s easy and there are plenty of guys that aren’t getting this fact and I’m going to make it very clear.

WOMEN HAVE A HARD TIME “OPENELY” REJECTING MEN!

They key word here is “openly/obvious” let me give you an example of an obvious rejection.

Jim: Would you like to go out with me?
Carla: No.

It’s a little on the blunt side, but Carla made it very clear, open and obvious. Read that again, she said no. Meaning she doesn’t want to go out. It’s that clear, open and obvious. No, no, no… there is nothing else to her response, she said no and she isn’t interested in going out with Jim.

Most men don’t get that response though, they get this thing.

Jim: Would you like to go out with me?
Carla: Um, can’t…

You’ve been rejected.

Note that any responses will only be valid once you A: Confirm a new date or B: She offers a new date.

Carla: Um, can’t…

I’m busy: This can mean anything and most of the time it’s missing something and that’s “I’m too busy…too hang out with you…but I can hang out with my friends, family, watch television, go on Facebook and just do nothing…just can’t see you…”

If she followed up with a nice

Carla: Maybe we can get together (insert a date here and no not a “sometime in the future or anything vauge…you deserve a day and a time.)

Or even

Jim: How about (another day and a time)
Carla: Ok sounds great

If she saids she can’t, don’t bother, move on…

You’ve been rejected.

If you did get a date and she didn’t answer your call to confirm, didn’t show up and
then gives you some lame excuse.

You’ve been rejected.

Many women don’t say NO. They are just being nice I guess, I’d rather they say no though. Think about it, the girls saids no, I can move on, it’s her loss.

NOW! If she saids ok, then doesn’t show up, she’s wasted my time and my efforts. That seems a lot harsher. If she saids ok, then gives me a fake number, that’s just harsh. She saids ok, then tells me at the last minute she can’t make it, no no no, that’s not right.

Guys, notice when a girl is rejected you, you aren’t stupid. If it seems like it’s hard to date a certain girl, like her schedule is dodging you and for some reason she can’t seem to make time or even try to make time, she’s rejecting you.
And girls.

Just make It clear, two letter word. Just say no.

You don’t want to give out your number, say no.

You don’t want to go out, say no.

We are past the no means yes stage…
Say no
and we will go

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