You went out one night, had a little too much to drink, you kissed someone. CHEATED!
You went out one night with a girl, had something to eat, went back to her place and had sex. CHEATED! This isn’t your first time though, this is your 3rd time and now she considers you her boyfriend, since she isn’t aware of the other women. AFFAIR! While messing around with your girlfriend, you get a call from your ex and she’s in your area, you meet her and have sex. You are now messing with three women and you’re in two relationships. CHEATER!
Cheating is hard to forgive, but you can forgive someone for cheating. A GIRL yes a GIRL, kisses some guy she meets at a bar, because she was drunk, yes she cheated. It just one kiss though and you are certain she won’t do it again, probably will though. Who goes to a bar by themselves and drinks in an area where being hit on is a definite? That is pretty strange; I’m getting off topic though.
A cheater is someone who has cheated more than once, now a cheater, is always going to be a cheater. Once you cheat, then cheat again, you will cheat again. That’s for certain and I’ll put money on that. If you cheat once, yeah there is hope, you might not do it again. Since you explain it to them and you have to earn back their trust, but if you do it twice! HA! You’re a cheater, what is honestly stopping you from doing it again? Since whatever you said before, clearly didn’t stick, since you cheated a second time.
Once a cheater, always a cheater; It’s alright though, you get this cool name tag.
Affairs take some work, considering you’ve passed cheating and begin a cheater and decided to formulate relationships around relationships, I guess you like commitment, but still want more than one person. THIS IS THE WORST! I mean cheating is one thing and being a cheater is another.
Stringing along a bunch of people, emotionally is just horrible and if the person is found out, their rep will be totalled.
Your best is just to stay single, if you want to mess with more than one person.
That or just you know, remain faithful.
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I didn't know you were still doing the blog. Isn't the assignment over?
ReplyDeleteInteresting blog post. Never really thought about that split
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Thanks, it's still up and running and I'm still taking questions.
ReplyDeleteJust remember someone that cheats can be forgiving, but a cheater errrrrrrr that's a little harder to deal with.